Andrey, 30, Chicago

How would you react if you found out that your loved one has a profile on a dating site? - I would ask them directly – maybe there’s a reasonable explanation

How much time do you spend on your phone? - More than I would like, but I try to control the time spent on the phone

What is your attitude towards office romances? - You can meet your person anywhere, including at work

Do you prefer audiobooks or regular books? - I mostly read regular books.

Do you think it's important to have joint accounts and budgets as a couple, or should everyone manage their finances separately? - You can make large purchases using a common budget, but everyone should have their own money

What's your favorite movie genre? - Thriller

How often do you visit doctors? - I usually try to put off going to the doctor until the last minute, and only go if it becomes really necessary

Gray hair is... - Just a natural process; I don’t attach any importance to it

Do you think it's easy to find a partner today? - No, people seem less interested in serious relationships

What is your opinion on global warming? - I think this is an exaggerated threat, and in reality the situation is not so critical

How often do you watch TV? - I don’t have a TV at home

Do you believe in friendship between a man and a woman? - Yes, of course! Friendship doesn’t depend on gender but on shared interests, respect, and trust

Would you like to date someone who is perfect in every aspect? - People who are perfect in all senses fright me away

Would you start a relationship with a partner who ended up his/her last relationship only a month ago? - Yes, if I see that we match

You are planning to move in with your partner, but he / she has pets. Could this be a problem? - No, I love animals

Do you care about grammar errors in people's profiles and messages? - No, I do not

You found a few exes in your partner’s social media friend list. What will your actions be like? - I will just ask why they are there.

When do you prefer to go out for dates? - On weekdays

Is it important for you to buy items from well-known brands? - No, it is more important for me that I like the design of the item, and the brand is not a priority

What is your psychological age? - It is below my real age

What do you prefer more: a beach or a pool ? - A beach

Are you ready to build a relationship with a partner who already has children? - Yes, it's not a problem for me

Are hugs important to you? - Sometimes I feel the need for them

Is the past capable of affecting a present relationship? - No, a new relationship is a new beginning.

Do you think it is important to add photos to a dating site? - Yes, a photo helps create a first impression

What is more important for you: looks or intelligence and personality? - I am looking for harmony of mind and beauty.

You told your partner in advance what you wanted as a gift, but they chose something completely different. How would you react? - I wouldn't make a problem out of it. The important thing is that my partner tried and paid attention

What is more important to you in a relationship: being open, even if it may hurt, or staying emotionally calm by avoiding discussing difficult topics? - For me, frankness is more important — without it, there can be no trust

Pros and cons of having a pet? - The advantages of having a pet outweigh any possible problems.

If you found out that your friend's partner is cheating, how would you handle the situation? - It depends on the circumstances. I would need to consider how my friend might react, whether there is irrefutable evidence, and if it's worth getting involved

Do you follow fashion? - I’m not interested in fashion, I choose what I like, regardless of fashion standards

What superpower would you like to have? - Healing

The partner has radically changed his/her hairstyle without letting you know in advance. Your reaction? - My partner doesn't have to discuss it ahead with me, but I will not hide my honest opinion about the new hairstyle

Do you believe in long distance relationships? - Only for a short time. Live communication is important to me

What is your opinion on metrosexuals—men who place great importance on their appearance? - Neutral: Everyone has the right to look the way they prefer

Can you talk to other people about your feelings and emotions? - I don’t know how to talk about it, I keep everything to myself

What is the best place for a first date? - A walk in the fresh air, for example, in a park or along the embankment

Is there anything in your past that you would like to change? - Yes, there are situations I wish I had handled differently

At what age is it better to move out of your parents house? - As soon as possible

What is the first thing you have in your hands in the morning? - A smartphone

Would you prefer to buy a pet or adopt one from a shelter or the street? - The origin of the pet doesn’t matter to me; the most important thing is that I like it

You and your potential partner live in different countries. Who do you think should come on the first date? - A man travels to a country where a woman lives

What is the best beard for a man? - I don't like beards, clean shaven is better.

To what degree can you accept jealousy? - Yes, little bit is ok. That would mean he/she loves me.

Would you like to fly to Mars? - I prefer to stay on Earth

Do you think that it's good to change the world? - I would love to change it completely

If you found out that your partner is discussing your relationship with friends and/or relatives, how would you react? - I would be upset — such matters should remain private between us

Joint / separate vacation of a married couple, what is your opinion? - If the vacation is separate, then this is no longer a married couple.

What would you prefer: living in a bustling metropolis or in a silent and cozy of a suburban house? - It doesn't matter to me.

What is the first thing you look at when you see someone of the opposite sex? - The face

The partner asked to remove a provocative photo from social networks. What is your reaction? - I will delete the photo

Do you play computer games? - No, I prefer other types of entertainment

You have a time machine. Where will you go on your trip? - Future

You come home hungry in the evening and the fridge is empty. Your actions: - I'll order food delivery

Would you rather get engaged in a public place or in private with your partner? - In a private environment, so that the moment is only ours

Can a careerist women be happy in relationships? - Yes, it’s possible to successfully combine all of that.

Can you swim? - Yes, I can swim very well - no worse than a fish!

Is it possible to stay on friendly terms with your ex? - Yes, if the breakup was peaceful and there are no hard feelings

After a few dates you find out that your chosen one has absolutely no sense of humor. What would you think? - Such a person doesn't basically suit me.

Does dark humor interferes with you? - I like dark humor

Online dating creates the illusion of an infinite number of options. Is it possible to stop at some point? - Yes. I will remove my account when I start a serious relationship.

What does spiritual growth mean to you? - Getting to know myself and the world around.

Should you talk to your new partner about your ex? - No. It can damage your new relationship

How easily do you part with things? - I part with ordinary things easily, but I keep items that are associated with memories

Dresses and skirts on women are... - Very beautiful and feminine

Do you agree that in everyday life there are responsibilities only for men and only for women? - I partially agree. Some tasks are more convenient for one gender (e.g., heavy physical labor), but in general, everything can be discussed

How do you prefer your partner to give you gifts? - I completely leave the choice to my partner

What do you think of the breast augmentation surgery for women? - Sometimes it can look beautiful.

How emotionally sensitive are you? - I am rarely affected by anything; I stay calm about most things

Do you pay attention to your potential partner's zodiac sign? - Sometimes, but I don't take it seriously

What do you prefer - iPhone or Android? - Android only

Do you believe in paranormal phenomena? - Yes, I’m sure there are things in the world that science hasn’t explained yet

What mood do you usually wake up in in the morning? - In a good mood and looking forward to a new day

If you have problems in a relationship, would you go to a family therapist? - Yes

What personal qualities of your partner would you never be able to put up with? - Lies

Can an affair improve a couple's marriage? - No, cheating can't improve anything

Partner wants to go to a nightclub, and you want to stay at home. Your actions? - I’ll say straight out that I don’t want him/her to go without me

Can a situation where a woman earns significantly more than a man become a problem in a relationship? - If the couple is not influenced by stereotypes, this should not be an issue

How much time should pass from the first date till the first intimacy? - If both are attracted to each other, why keep waiting

What position do you sleep in? - I sleep on my side.

Your partner forgot about your anniversary or other important date. What would be your reaction? - I could understand, with a justifiable reason

Would you open an envelope with the date of your death written on it? - Yes, I would like to know when this will happen.

Would you like to have an exotic pet? - No, I prefer traditional pets

Do you use AI (artificial intelligence) in your daily life? - No, I don’t see the need to use AI in my everyday life yet

Is it possible to maintain passion for your partner after many years together? - Yes, if you put effort into it

If daily life begins to seem flat, I will: - Liven up and try to make my dreams come true

Your partner has gained weight over time. How do you react? - I will suggest doing sports together or switching to a healthier diet

Would you start an affair with a married man/woman? - No way!

Do you like cooking? - Sometimes, when I'm in the right mood

Do you think it's possible to fall in love at an older age? - Yes, of course. Love doesn’t depend on age. Even in later years, you can experience strong feelings because the soul remains timeless

What is your opinion towards tattoos? - Like it

Do you believe in destiny? - I believe that main events are predetermined, but we can change our fate if we wish

Who is easier to get along with? - A partner complementing me

Do you believe it is necessary to have a hobby? - No, I don't think so

What is your attitude toward alcohol? - I can drink, but very moderately and only in the company of close people

Are you comfortable being alone? - I am comfortable on my own

Imagine that you could be a schoolchild again. Would you take advantage of this opportunity? - No, never

How would you react if you noticed that your partner was liking other guys/girls' photos on social media? - It would hurt me, and I’d talk to them to try to understand the reason behind it

Have you ever been to a double date (two couples)? - No, I haven't.

What would you choose, the ability to speak 10 foreign languages or talk to animals? - Knowledge of animal language

What clothes do you prefer to wear at home? - I love wearing comfortable T-shirts and shorts that I wouldn’t wear outside anymore

What is your attitude towards unnatural hair colors? - It may be beautiful, but it's not for everyone

Do you have a more optimistic or pessimistic outlook on life? - I’m an optimist, always hoping for the best, even in tough situations

Do you kiss with your eyes open or closed? - Both ways.

Is it possible to love two people at once? - No, it's not. If you truly love someone, you don’t need anyone else

Can you play any musical instrument? - No, I can’t

How stress resistant are you? - I remain calm in stressful situations

Do you stay in touch as friends with your exes? - Yes, with some of them.

How many sexual partners of your companion in the past would you consider acceptable? - The most important is that we are together now.

Do you have any phobias (irrational fears)? - I don't have any phobias

What is the best topic to talk about on a first date? - Unusual questions: dreams, unique life events, and interesting hobbies

When it comes to marriage, should both be the breadwinners or it is better to split the responsibilities? - Both partners should work.

Which format of communication do you prefer in the first stage of acquaintance? - Correspondence in instant messengers

Do voice messages in instant messengers annoy you? - No, but I myself only send text messages

How important is a healthy lifestyle to you? - I try to maintain a balance, but I don't always strictly follow the principles of a healthy lifestyle

Are you ready to move to another country for the sake of a serious relationship? - No, I'm not.

In your opinion, is it normal to check the identity card and other personal documents of a potential partner at the beginning of a relationship? - No, it shows a lack of trust, which is offensive

Do you watch adult movies? - Yes, sometimes.

Would you read your partner's private mailing/SMS on a phone if you had a chance? - No, I would never do that.

Your partner asks you to change something about your appearance. Your reaction: - I am not willing to change my appearance for my partner

Do you consider online sex a form of cheating? - Yes, it is definitely cheating

What is your opinion about a civil union? - Useful before marriage. Helps to see your partner in daily routine

You come home hungry in the evening and the fridge is empty. Your actions: - I'll buy groceries and cook something quickly

Do you exercise? - I do, but without a strict schedule

What format of communication in instant messengers do you prefer? - Text messages

In an emergency, you are more likely to listen to: - Intuitions

Have you ever been camping? - No, I haven’t, but I’d love to try it

Your relationship is in full swing. But your friends and/or parents keep saying you're not supposed to be together. Whose opinion would you consider? - I would only consider my own feelings.

Your attitude to obscene language? - I use it occasionally myself and do not mind moderate use by others

Would you like to change your place of residence? - I’m not sure, but I’m open to the idea if something interesting comes up

In your opinion, is it possible to sleep in different bedrooms with your partner? - I think a couple should sleep together

What would be your actions if on a first date your partner looks significantly worse or does not look like his/her photos on the site at all? - I would stay and try to be quick about bringing the date to an end.

Can a marriage without children be happy? - Yes, happiness in marriage depends on love and mutual understanding, not on having children

At what age did you first fall in love? - In teenage years

Are you happy with your body? - In general, yes, but I’d like to make some improvements

Your partner is child-free. Will you keep building a relationship with him/her? - Yes, relationship can be great even without kids

Have you ever had an inexplicable feeling telling you that this very person is for you? - Yes, I have.

What do you think has the greatest impact on building a strong relationship? - The ability to talk and negotiate with your partner about any issues that bother you

Should you give flowers on a first date? - Not necessarily. What matters most is sincerity and good communication

A woman is way taller than a man. Would it bother you? - No, it wouldn't.

A man is 10 years younger than a woman. Can their relationship have prospect? - Yes, it can.

When it comes to a relationship, do you prefer more to give or receive? - Everything should be mutual in a relationship.

Do you have bad habits? - I have no bad habits

A man with long hair... - ...should rather have it cut.

How many dating websites are you registered at? - Only here.

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