5980378
Vika, 41     
Bergen, Norway
Aquarius
visited 17 hours ago

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Looking for: a man 18 - 38 years old
Dating purpose: love, marriage

About myself

I’m looking for a lifelong partner who has the following traits, all equally important. TBH, I’m writing this checklist for myself - to keep the lighthouse in sight.
1) He leads a healthy lifestyle, actively working to reduce his biological age and live a high‑quality life for as long as possible — to “die on the same day” with me — and to share intimacy for many years together. This is the reason I want a man in my life (otherwise, I already have friends of both genders).
2) Emotional maturity — this often correlates with higher IQ, but since the “IQ” label is frequently misused by rationalizers and low critical thinkers, I prefer to use this term instead.
3) Value authenticity over conformity (high RQ). Not swayed by the pressures of societal expectations, appreciates the genuine over the artificial, the real over the exaggerated, which is visible in actions, not words.
4) View relationships as opportunities for growth, learning, and self-discovery.
5) Desire for deep connection. Not scared of vulnerability; instead, embraces it as a pathway.
6) Understands that life’s lessons are not learned from textbooks, but from living, experiencing, and growing.
These may sound like blabla points, but their meaning is real: a relationship built on these values has a strong forecast of being lifelong and joyful — exactly what I am looking for. It stands in complete contrast to the bitter feeling of wasted time and regret I experienced in other, more average social forms. I don’t blame anyone; they’re simply not for me.

Dating in other languages

Languages:  English , Russian
Looking for dating in other languages:  Russian, English

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Personal information

Marital status: single
Children: 1
Children accommodation: not with me
Ethnic type: caucasian
Country of birth: Belarus
Education: Higher
Specialization: economics and finance
Accommodation: in private house

Appearance

Height: 161 cm
Weight: 46 kg
Skin: tanned
Eyes color: green
Hair length: long
Hair type: wavy
Hair color: black
Body: nothing

Travels

Canada
Czech Republic
Egypt
France
Germany
Israel
Italy
Lithuania
Mexico
Poland
Russia
Spain
Tunisia
Turkey
Ukraine
United Kingdom
USA (San Diego, Los Angeles, San Jose, Chula Vista, Las Vegas, Newton, Manhattan, Philadelphia)

Country and religion

Nationality: Russian
Attitude to religion: atheist
Military service: did not serve

Habits

Smoking: no
Alcohol attitude: sometimes
Favourite alcoholic beverage: dark beer
Type of food: standard

Character and hobbies

Favourite music: rock, hard rock, metal, eastern (mizrahi), blues, jazz, ethnic, new-age, dance music, electronic, classic
Interests: animals, cafes / restaurants, art, reading, philosophy, sports, travelling, dancing
Personal qualities: quiet, self-confident, consider others, inventive, perfectionist, romantic, ambitious, inquisitive

Additional information

Vaccination against COVID-19: not vaccinated
Pet: cat
Webcam: yes, I have
Car driving license: have
Personal transport: car



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user number: 5980378
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Vika, 41
Bergen, Norway
I am seeking a man 18-38 years

I’m looking for a lifelong partner who has the following traits, all equally important. TBH, I’m writing this checklist for myself - to keep the...
visited 17 hours ago